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The Book
Lost in Transit
The space between intention and understanding.
You have meant every word. And somehow, somewhere between your mouth and their ears, it got lost.
Lost in Transit is about that gap — and what it takes to close it. Drawing on thirty years of experience across sales floors, boardrooms, classrooms and family kitchens, Ashok Philip brings together the stories, principles and hard‑won insights that reveal what communication actually is, and what it demands of us.
Not a book about techniques. A book about people.
“At a time when cynicism and distrust have come to mark corporate culture, here’s a little gem of a book that will enhance leadership and enliven boardrooms. Ashok Philip employs the conversational style of a home‑grown and more contemporary Dale Carnegie to elucidate how communication is the real key to corporate success — and it’s not just about words…”
Pamela Philipose, journalist and author
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Practical, focused sessions on communication that change how people write, speak and listen — in person or online.
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Articles
Writing on communication, leadership and clarity.
The False Comfort of Having Communicated
Your email was sent.
Your meeting was held.
Your announcement was made.
So why hasn't anything changed?
I've spent over three decades working with organisations across India, the UK, and several international markets. Large and small. Corporate and non-profit.
And I've seen the same thing happen over and over again.
Good people. Good intentions. And a message that missed.
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Why Your Messages Keep Failing
Consider what a road does.
It doesn't move goods.
It makes movement possible.
Without the road, the best vehicle carrying the most valuable cargo goes nowhere. Not because the cargo is wrong. Not because the driver is incompetent.
Because there's nothing in place to carry it.
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Most Organisations Don't Have a Communication Problem. They Have Four.
I've spent thirty years working with organisations across sectors. And in almost every one, I find the same patterns showing up — different people, different industries, same underlying gaps.
Not communication problems in the obvious sense. No one's being rude. No one's withholding information on purpose. The intent is there.
But intent, it turns out, isn't the same as infrastructure.
Read more →The False Comfort of Having Communicated
Your email was sent.
Your meeting was held.
Your announcement was made.
So why hasn't anything changed?
I've spent over three decades working with organisations across India, the UK, and several international markets. Large and small. Corporate and non-profit.
And I've seen the same thing happen over and over again.
Good people. Good intentions. And a message that missed.
Not because they didn't try hard enough.
But because they confused sending with communicating.
There's a quiet assumption in most organisations:
that activity equals effectiveness.
It doesn't.
A message sent is not a message received.
A meeting held is not alignment achieved.
A policy published is not a policy understood.
In the gap between those two things — organisations lose time, trust, and momentum. Quietly. Consistently. Without ever identifying why.
For SME leaders, it shows up as repeated misunderstandings. Decisions made without the right information. Teams pulling in slightly different directions.
For NGO directors, it looks different — donor relationships that plateau, programmes that miss their mark, passionate people who somehow aren't moving together.
The instinct is always the same: communicate more.
Send another email. Call another meeting. Say it louder.
But more is not the answer.
Because the problem was never the message.
Next week: what the problem actually is — and why fixing it changes everything.
21 Jun 2026
Why Your Messages Keep Failing
Consider what a road does.
It doesn't move goods.
It makes movement possible.
Without the road, the best vehicle carrying the most valuable cargo goes nowhere. Not because the cargo is wrong. Not because the driver is incompetent.
Because there's nothing in place to carry it.
I've seen this play out in boardrooms and NGO offices, in growing SMEs and established corporates.
The message was good. The intent was right.
But nothing was in place to carry it.
This is why articulate leaders still struggle to translate strategy into action. Why does a vision that's clear at the top become blurred by the time it reaches the people who need to act on it?
It's not a messaging problem. It's a structural one.
And that distinction changes everything about where you look for a solution.
What does your organisation have in place to carry its messages?
28 Jun 2026
Most Organisations Don't Have a Communication Problem. They Have Four.
I've spent thirty years working with organisations across sectors. And in almost every one, I find the same patterns showing up — different people, different industries, same underlying gaps.
Not communication problems in the obvious sense. No one's being rude. No one's withholding information on purpose. The intent is there.
But intent, it turns out, isn't the same as infrastructure.
Everyone left the meeting with a different understanding of what was decided.
The meeting happened. People were present. Things were discussed. But three days later, two teams are moving in opposite directions — each convinced they're following the plan. The problem isn't that people weren't listening. It's that the communication didn't do what it needed to do.
The right message is going through the wrong channel.
Critical updates buried in email threads nobody reads. Sensitive feedback delivered in a group setting. Strategic direction announced at the all-hands and never spoken of again. When the vehicle doesn't match the message, even a well-crafted communication fails to land.
People hear what's being said — but they don't believe it.
The words are clear. The logic is sound. But something in the room shifts — a quiet withdrawal, polite nodding, minimal follow-through. Communication that isn't trusted doesn't travel. And trust, once eroded, is not restored with a better PowerPoint.
Nobody really knows if anything landed.
Leadership believes the message was understood. The people receiving it aren't so sure. And there's no real mechanism to find out — until the gap shows up as a missed deadline, a misaligned decision, or a team pulling in the wrong direction.
None of this is unusual. I see versions of it in almost every organisation I work with.
The question isn't whether any of this is happening in yours.
It's which one you've stopped noticing.